

Try to accept loved ones’ feelings, no matter what they are, and believe that however they’re coping, they’re doing their best. The best we can do for Grande, as well as anyone related to Miller’s death or any other premature loss, is to offer our compassion, presence, and any helpful resources for loss survivors. total trolls, blame her for his death Back to video. She, too, I imagine, is deeply mourning Miller’s premature passing. Ariana Grande addresses ex-boyfriend Mac Miller after fans, a.k.a. Grande’s past relationship connects her to Miller not through blame, but through a network of grief. In situations like Miller’s death, it’s crucial to provide support for those who’ve lost a loved one. But circulating blame does little besides spread hurt and take the focus off raising awareness around addiction and suicide. In an article discussing suicide survivor guilt, Gregory Dillon, MD, assistant professor of medicine and psychiatry at Weill Cornell Medical College, tells The New York Times, “Rather than thinking, ‘I wish I could’ve fixed this,’ if we can use these moments as a wake-up call to think, ‘I want to be more present and aware and connected and empathetic in general,’ - that would be so much more productive.” It’s understandable that in a time of great loss it’s easier to look for something or someone to concretely blame for someone’s death. As you know, Grande and Miller dated for two years before calling it quits. Miller, 26, died of a suspected drug overdose. After news of Mac Miller’s death surfaced online yesterday, many fans took to social media to blame Ariana Grande. The Way by Ariana Grande and Mac Miller was playing, so I sang along. Rather, it’s a deeply heartbreaking outcome of a social issue that deserves our time, attention, and compassion. Ariana Grande Reacts After Being Blamed For Mac Miller’s Death. My mom had taken off when I was five, and I honestly couldn't blame her. Death by suicide or overdose is never the individual’s fault, nor is it selfish. Globally, the United Nations estimate 190,900 premature deaths are caused by drugs. According to data collected by the World Health Organization, almost 800,000 people worldwide die by suicide every year. The Mary Sue has a strict comment policy that forbids, but is not limited to, personal insults toward anyone, hate speech, and trolling.Mental illness and addiction are complicated webs that affect people of all genders, races, and economic classes. Want more stories like this? Become a subscriber and support the site! In terms of Twitter conversations, this was unusually productive. Thank you for hearing me, i appreciate your response v much. It’s heartening to see a man willing to listen to a woman he’s demeaned and respond with such open regret. Ariana Grande won't let outside voices blame her for breaking up with Mac Miller, and she absolutely won't let anyone blame her for his reported arrest for driving under the influence, either. When it comes to talking on the internet about misogyny, those conversations usually only escalate.

Let’s please stop doing that.”Īfter Grande’s shut down what was happening with total firmness but no scorn or cruelty, the guy replied with an apology. I have cared for him and tried to support his sobriety & prayed for his balance for years (and always will of course) but shaming / blaming women for a man’s inability to keep his shit together is a very major problem. As she writes, “I am not a babysitter or a mother and no woman should feel that they need to be. “How absurd that you minimize female self-respect and self-worth by saying someone should stay in a toxic relationship because he wrote an album about them,” she writes, clarifying that really only one song on the album was about her–NOT THAT THAT MATTERS. That sort of entitlement is dehumanizing and incredibly creepy.Īriana Grande responded to the tweet directly: It’s bad enough to blame Grande’s choice to end a relationship for her ex’s destructive behavior, but the implication here is that Miller somehow earned and deserved Grande’s affection by writing songs about her.

Mac Miller totalling his G wagon and getting a DUI after Ariana Grande dumped him for another dude after he poured his heart out on a ten song album to her called the divine feminine is just the most heartbreaking thing happening in Hollywood Nope, this rando blames Ariana Grande for breaking up with him recently.

As this guy saw it, Miller’s not to blame for his actions. That’s what some dude was doing when he tweeted about rapper/producer Mac Miller’s recent car crash and DUI.
#Blaming ariana grande for mac miller’s serial
Everything from school shootings and serial killers to football players not footballing well enough–it’s just a quick hop and a step to finding a woman to fault. It seems like no matter what a man does, people will find a way to blame his behavior on a woman.
